Friendship Killer

This week has me thinking substantially about friendships and family.This week my love ones have suffered a terrrible loss and Im surrounded by so much sadness my heart is heavy.I’m reminded how short life really is
However, This post is focused on friendships and This Tuesday was my former best friend birthday due to reasons of thier own our friendship no longer exist. This is the first birthday that I was not apart of. Because time has moved on, so will I.
In light of this situation
I began to remember the fun birthday celebrations we had the laughs and smiles that busted out faces. Those moments I will continue to remember.
Within one year I lost two friendships that were important to me. The other ended  due to foreseen circumstances. It was expected to end, but how it ended was not expected. Although we no longer communicate. I care for them both and wish for them happiness
I want one to be open to find love and the other to love the one their with, and that they also receive love back.
So I feel the need to say this because if you truly have good geniune friends do not let others or differences come between you. Hold on to those friendships as tight as you can.

Sending Hugs out into the world..

Which One Is Polyamorous?

Test your skills which one of these relationships do you believe or think was living polyamorous?

There are 3 Couples which one of these 3 do you believe or you think was living the polyamorous life?

Couple #1

A single female in a 7 year relationship  with a male who is married to another women for 19 years. His wife is completely aware of his relationship with this woman. She feels some type of way about her husband engaging in what appears to be a loving, sexual relationship. She has also engaged in a sexual relationship with another man but very limited. She has tolerated this relationship because of a bigger personal agenda that this relationship will bring.


Couple # 2

Both Husband and Wife are married to each other for 17 Years. The husband engage in a sexual relationship outside of the marriage for 3 years. With no other intent except for a sexually explicit relationship with the other woman. The wife engages in a sexual relationship as well for over two years. She as well had no intent of being more than just involved with this person sexually. The husband and wife both were very aware of their extra sexual relations for the duration they existed but neither party acknowledge those relationships.


Couple # 3

This couple is married to each other for over 12 years. The wife engages in a sexual friendship outside of the marriage for over 3 years with another man beside her husband. She openly admits this relationship with her husband and that she cares for the person in this relationship. The husband on the other hand openly engages in a sexual relationship as well. He engages in sex with a woman one or twice a year. They are both fully aware of the extra relationships. Those extra relationships was also used as a tool for arousal methods for both wife and husband.


Do You Know What Polyamory is ?

Which one of these relationships depict the Polyamorous lifestyle?




I’am Me

I don’t need anyone to silence me

I don’t need anyone to tell me how to think

I don’t need anyone to tell me how to feel

I don’t need you to persuade  me to think what you want me to think

I don’t need you to persuade me to feel what you think I should feel 

I don’t need you to justify who I’am 

I’am me I will always have a opinion

I’am me I will always confront you

I’am me I will never bow down or pretend to be something I’m not

I’am me I love to be loved

I love to be me

                     -Angelica Fetishes